Day 22 – December 22, 2024

Day 22

... it is time to unplug!

Welcome to Day TWENTY TWO of our A-Z+ of Seasonal Sanity Savers – 2024.

It is that time of the year, isn’t it? To unplug.

That’s right, today’s letter is U and the word is Unplug so you can power down and find true calm and peace. We introverts need it at this time of the year.

The festive season can be a sensory whirlwind, leaving even the most resilient of we introverts craving quiet. That’s where the art of unplugging becomes your secret weapon. Whether it’s stepping away from the noise of social media, turning off notifications, or carving out an hour to be gloriously unreachable, unplugging allows you to breathe, recalibrate, and return to yourself.

For some, this might mean yoga, meditation, or soaking up the stillness of nature.

For others, it could be as simple as curling up with music that soothes your soul.

This reminds me of the beautiful piece by Emily W,

Unplug

My heart finds comfort in the growth and happiness of others.
I am at peace in the feel of my fingers against the smooth keys of a piano.
I am proud of the people who inspire others even when they have no inspiration.
I love playing in the rain and looking at the smiles of my friends.

But most of all, I love that I can pick up a pen and some paper and unplug myself from the world.
I unplug myself from the outlet of negativity,
Unplug myself from all this senseless worry,
Overwhelming the circuits of my heart with a burst of electric peace.

The words I write become a gateway to my soul.
They create a universe where I can hear the beat of my heart and know I am still alive.
A place free of expectations that I cannot reach.
A world where I finally feel that it is okay to be me.

I can lose the voice in my head telling me there’s no point in my existence.
I can ignore the feeling that I will never live up to everyone’s expectations.
I finally break free of the weight that has become accustomed to my shoulders.
All that remains is my words, freeing me; mind and soul.

I find peace in the sound of a pen scratching along a piece of paper.
I find joy in the words that I never knew I had inside me.
I celebrate when I am able to unplug from the cold world we live in,
And plug in to my beating, feeling heart.

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What’s your favourite way to unplug and unwind?

Make time for it today. A little unwinding time for ourselves is not a luxury, but a necessity, a responsibility even, towards our own wellbeing.

Give yourself permission to disconnect from the external chaos and reconnect with your beating, feeling heart.

It is not about shutting the world out completely.

It is about creating space to listen to what you truly need amidst the season’s demands.

Do this so you can emerge feeling more centred, authentic, and ready to navigate the festivities on your own flourishing terms.


So, tomorrow’s letter is V. What would it be for you? Can you guess what I have chosen it to be?

Let me know if you have one in mind!

Quietly, and unapologetically yours,
Joanna

Cage Rattler & Bias Shifter – Helping organisations unlock potential by shifting extraversion bias | Coaching quiet leaders | TEDx Speaker |  Trainer | Founder, CEOFlourishing Introverts | Host – The Flourishing Introvert Talks and (dropping) Pebbles in the Pond | Author – The Flourishing Nudge  | Co-Flourisher, Co-FounderIntent to Flourish

Day 21 – December 21, 2024

Day 21

... traditions are lovely, but..

Welcome to Day TWENTY ONE of our A-Z+ of Seasonal Sanity Savers – 2024.

For today’s letter T, I chose the beautiful and heartwarming word ‘traditions’, but with a twist (ah see another T word). Let us make some new traditions, ones that truly align with our core being and values.

Traditions are lovely, but who says they can’t evolve to reflect who YOU are?

My dear introvert friend, this festive season, consider swapping out rituals that drain your energy for ones that celebrate your introverted spirit. Start and promote a tradition that is focused on our authentic way of being as we introverts flourish truly well when we can be ourselves.

Maybe,

  • Create a cosy evening of reading your favourite book by fairy lights
    – A quiet walk through nature,
  • Or, an intimate dinner with your nearest and dearest.
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To me, the beauty of starting your own traditions is the freedom to design experiences that nourish you, rather than exhaust you. As a bonus, you get to celebrate them with those who align with your energy and celebrate you as you are.

Change is constant and so can we introverts, as individuals. If long-standing traditions do not resonate anymore, it is time we give ourselves permission to adjust to evolve into what really works for us, or even let them go.

A word of caution though, please start small.

Perhaps an annual solo outing to a café you love or a digital-free day to recharge. These can be moments of joy that reflect your values and help you connect to the season in your own way. Remember, traditions aren’t meant to be burdens; they’re meant to bring meaning and comfort, so make them work for You, so you can flourish as the person you are.

Wow, the clock is ticking fast. Tomorrow’s letter is U, and I’d love to know the word that comes to your mind to bring a little extra peace to your festive toolkit?

Let your imagination roam!

Quietly, and tenderly yours,
Joanna

Cage Rattler & Bias Shifter – Helping organisations unlock potential by shifting extraversion bias | Coaching quiet leaders | TEDx Speaker |  Trainer | Founder, CEOFlourishing Introverts | Host – The Flourishing Introvert Talks and (dropping) Pebbles in the Pond | Author – The Flourishing Nudge  | Co-Flourisher, Co-FounderIntent to Flourish

Day 20 – December 20, 2024

Day 20

...Do you stretch?

Welcome to Day TWENTY of our A-Z+ of Seasonal Sanity Savers – 2024.

Do you stretch? Well I think we all should!

You guessed it, for today’s letter S I have chosen Stretching, just like animals do, because it is great for our mind and body. So what say you, let’s limber up for festive flourishing, shall we?

Have you ever noticed how naturally animals stretch as they start to move?

Cats arch their backs, dogs stretch out their front legs, and they do it with such ease and grace. If you’ve ever been to yoga, you’ll be familiar with the alternate cat and cow move and the downward dog pose I’m sure. What an amazing way nature has of gifting them something that’s good for their wellbeing.

Taking a cue from them, weaving gentle stretches into your day can do wonders for the mental and physical well-being of we introverts. The thing is, that stretching isn’t just about flexibility. It is a moment to reconnect with your body and calm a busy mind.

When festive demands leave you frazzled, take a minute to stretch. How about you just try and reach for the ceiling, roll your shoulders, or try a simple spinal twist whilst you’re sat in your chair. These small pauses release tension, improve circulation, help you breathe more deeply, and bring you back to your centre, no matter your age, gender or body type.

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This season, why not make stretching a mindful ritual?

Pair it with something you love, like listening to soothing music or standing near a sunny window. Morning stretches can prepare you for the day, while evening ones can signal it’s time to unwind.

Think of it as your secret tool to stay grounded while the festive world spins around you.

Tomorrow, Tomorrow, Tomorrow .. Oh I beg your pardon I started singing. Well tomorrow’s letter is T, and I’m curious as to what word would you choose to tuck into your sanity toolkit?

Give it a thought and share if you’d like!

Quietly, and stretching-ly yours (LOL)
Joanna

Cage Rattler & Bias Shifter – Helping organisations unlock potential by shifting extraversion bias | Coaching quiet leaders | TEDx Speaker |  Trainer | Founder, CEOFlourishing Introverts | Host – The Flourishing Introvert Talks and (dropping) Pebbles in the Pond | Author – The Flourishing Nudge  | Co-Flourisher, Co-FounderIntent to Flourish

Day 19 – December 19, 2024

Day 19

...Reconnect, this time with ourselves

Welcome to Day NINETEEN of our A-Z+ of Seasonal Sanity Savers – 2024.

Today’s letter ‘R’ is so important for we introvert. I am choosing today’s word to be Reconnect, this time with ourselves. Make time for a little check-in on our own wellbeing.

Replenishing your energy is non-negotiable during the festive rush, however the reality is that true recharging starts with reconnecting to your needs.

Pause for a moment today and ask yourself these questions,

“What am I really feeling right now?” And be honest with yourself as a superhero stance when you’re trying to reconnect with yourself won’t cut the mustard.

“What do I really need right now?” This is about seeing where you may need to adjust your plan in order to meet your needs. It’s no crime to look out for your own needs, in fact, it is our responsibility to do so.

It could be as simple as more rest, a nourishing meal, or even a few minutes of uninterrupted and complete silence. Treat this practice like a therapeutic check-in with your inner being. By getting back into alignment with your needs, you can sidestep unnecessary overwhelm and make choices that honour your boundaries. Because remember, explicit boundaries are beautiful!

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Now, take it a step further and think about your emergency IRK (Introvert Recharging Kit) and yes I totally created that abbreviation right here, right now and I am claiming it as mine. LOL! (No but seriously, I am)

What are the essential go-to tools, activities, or comforts that instantly make you feel centred?

Perhaps it’s your favourite playlist.
A journal to clear your thoughts.
Maybe a long walk away from the crowds.

Make sure you have easy access to your essentials, and please remember that reconnecting with yourself isn’t selfish, far from it. It is your secret to flourishing amid the loud and non-stop festive cheer.

Tomorrow we move to S! If you had to pick a word starting with S to add to your festive sanity kit, what would it be? Let’s see if we’re on the same page!

Quietly, and selflessly yours,
Joanna

Cage Rattler & Bias Shifter – Helping organisations unlock potential by shifting extraversion bias | Coaching quiet leaders | TEDx Speaker |  Trainer | Founder, CEOFlourishing Introverts | Host – The Flourishing Introvert Talks and (dropping) Pebbles in the Pond | Author – The Flourishing Nudge  | Co-Flourisher, Co-FounderIntent to Flourish