But here’s the paradoxical thing – as Dwight D. Eisenhower said, “Plans are nothing; planning is everything.” What this means is the very process of planning allows you to understand the real nature of what needs doing, so that you know where there is room for flex, if and when needed.

It’s extremely rare for us to be able to stick rigidly to our plans and actually, that’s not the point.

Whether it’s the big family meal prep plan, or the complex arrangements, or being clear about who needs to be where and when, transparent plans offer a potential lifeline to harmonious authenticity.

Consider your options carefully if someone tries to disrupt your carefully curated plan with last-minute demands or invitations. Your consideration should include the power of a gracious no or an authentic yes – your choice. And that choice is made easier because you understand the implications.

Dare I say, start planning now and let the season dance to your rhythm.

Tomorrow we conquer Q – and spoiler alert, as much as some of you may say it is Queen of Introversion, it is not. What word beginning with Q would you crown as your sanity tool? Can’t wait to see if we match!

Quietly, and intentionally yours,
-Joanna