To me, the beauty of starting your own traditions is the freedom to design experiences that nourish you, rather than exhaust you. As a bonus, you get to celebrate them with those who align with your energy and celebrate you as you are.

Change is constant and so can we introverts, as individuals. If long-standing traditions do not resonate anymore, it is time we give ourselves permission to adjust to evolve into what really works for us, or even let them go.

A word of caution though, please start small.

Perhaps an annual solo outing to a café you love or a digital-free day to recharge. These can be moments of joy that reflect your values and help you connect to the season in your own way. Remember, traditions aren’t meant to be burdens; they’re meant to bring meaning and comfort, so make them work for You, so you can flourish as the person you are.

Wow, the clock is ticking fast. Tomorrow’s letter is U, and I’d love to know the word that comes to your mind to bring a little extra peace to your festive toolkit?

Let your imagination roam!

Quietly, and tenderly yours,
Joanna