
Day 04
...Compassion begins with ourselves
Welcome to Day FOUR of our A-Z+ of Seasonal Sanity Savers – 2024.
Today’s letter is ‘C’ and I gift you the word Compassion but there is a very specific angle I bring to the table.
We introverts are thinkers, and considerate ones at that. We are mindful about what we say and how it will affect others. We are compassionate, caring and in fact careful in how we treat others.
However, having compassion should start with ourselves. To recognise and respect our own needs is never about being selfish. As a matter of fact it is about being thoughtful on how we can look after ourselves so we can show up for others with our best ability to be kind and supportive towards them too.
Whether it is being a leader, or colleague or a family member – honouring your needs is about walking the talk and leading by example, at work and home. Saying ‘no’ to certain invitations with compassion for self and empathy towards other involves clarity of our own capacity and communicating it positively and thoughtfully. That is never a bad thing.
What you are doing is setting expectations for others while respecting what your head, heart and body needs. And trust me when I say, when you learn to be compassionate with yourself you are much more able to have empathy and understanding towards others too.
Let us use the power of compassion for self and others to balance between your needs and what others can expect from you.
I do it. I encourage you to do it too.
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Tomorrow’s letter is D. Now that you are loving this journey, what do you think D is about? In fact, what will D be about for YOU?
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Joanna Rawbone
- 4 December 2024
- 1 minute
Cage Rattler & Bias Shifter – Helping organisations unlock potential by shifting extraversion bias | Coaching quiet leaders | TEDx Speaker | Trainer | Founder, CEO – Flourishing Introverts | Host – The Flourishing Introvert Talks and (dropping) Pebbles in the Pond | Author – The Flourishing Nudge | Co-Flourisher, Co-Founder – Intent to Flourish





